Have you ever wondered what it would be like if you are involved in a threesome? If you are reading this article, maybe that means you are already intrigued. You may don't know where to find the proper partner for a threesome hookup or maybe you have had threesomes with your partner but you still have no idea how to make it a great experience. As a sexual expert, I spent a lot of time with my colleagues and customers talking about how to have a threesome, who should be involved, when, where, and why, etc. We talked a lot about this issue. Threesome may sound fascinating, but many couples or lovers are worried that threesome may damage their relationship, because it do has the potential to do so. Therefore, I decided to share my result with you. Here are a few tips for swinger couples and lovers on threesomes to ensure a great threesome experience.
Be open and honest with each other. Seems like obvious, right? It is. However, as a matter of fact, lovers aren't always open and honest with each other, especially when it comes to sexual topic. If one of you are a conservative, that would be even harder. In other words, if you are going to have a threesome hookup together, you need to be open and honest with your desire and boundaries. In this way, it is possible to have a qualified and great threesome dating experience. For couples and lovers, open communication is inevitable. If you are also looking for the third partner, you should also be open and honest with the third. You are in this together. No one should be hidden in the dark. All contents should be noticed by you all and all parties should be involved in this discussion.
How to look for the third? When it is asked what kind of people you want to invite to the threesome party, most couples have no idea about this question. The first step to find the third is to find out what do you want exactly. You can write down the features of the perfect third in your mind together. Such as eye color, personalities, body type, etc. When everything is written down, you will be clear with what you want.
Set boundaries. I have mentioned boundaries above, but I would like to stress this issue a little more. It is dangerous for couples to jump into the pool without a pre-notice. It is just like when you were little and you went to a pool. You should know where the deep end is, or you could be drowned to death after you jump in. The case is the same for threesome hookup. To make everyone feel secure with each other, you should let them know what is your boundaries or what makes you feel uncomfortable. In return, you should respect their boundaries.
